Comments on: Where’s My Lifeguard? http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/#utm_source=feed&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=feed Bird of Ill Repute Thu, 09 Feb 2012 05:23:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: The V Woman http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57585 The V Woman Mon, 05 Oct 2009 19:23:17 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57585 There seems to be a lot of sour notes in the wind lately. The most recent one around me was one of my friend's wedding was called off by the fiance calling my friend's father the day before the wedding. While I have never been in either situation (woo hoo being perpetually single?), I have had my share of crushing losses, so I empathize and my heart goes out to you. There seems to be a lot of sour notes in the wind lately. The most recent one around me was one of my friend’s wedding was called off by the fiance calling my friend’s father the day before the wedding. While I have never been in either situation (woo hoo being perpetually single?), I have had my share of crushing losses, so I empathize and my heart goes out to you.

]]> By: Kat http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57581 Kat Mon, 05 Oct 2009 14:49:01 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57581 Been without internet (and phone) all weekend (shakes fist at Bell Canada), so only now catching up on things. So sorry you are going through all of this! Mega-big (((HUGS))) to you! Been pretty much on both sides of this (child of divorce and also a divorcee (no kids tho)) it should like you are dealing with this rationally. I know it may not feel like it some days, but you do seem to be going about it right, especially in terms of the kids and making sure they are cared for by both parents - even if parents are apart. You are going through some hard times now, and they will get better. There will be ups and downs, but know that you are doing the best thing you can do for you and for your family. Chin up! You have got lots of support out there - though the hardest thing is always to ask for it. Best wishes for you all. Been without internet (and phone) all weekend (shakes fist at Bell Canada), so only now catching up on things. So sorry you are going through all of this! Mega-big (((HUGS))) to you!

Been pretty much on both sides of this (child of divorce and also a divorcee (no kids tho)) it should like you are dealing with this rationally. I know it may not feel like it some days, but you do seem to be going about it right, especially in terms of the kids and making sure they are cared for by both parents – even if parents are apart.

You are going through some hard times now, and they will get better. There will be ups and downs, but know that you are doing the best thing you can do for you and for your family. Chin up! You have got lots of support out there – though the hardest thing is always to ask for it.

Best wishes for you all.

]]> By: readerdiane http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57579 readerdiane Mon, 05 Oct 2009 02:42:26 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57579 Best wishes that your life gets back on track for your whole family. Best wishes that your life gets back on track for your whole family.

]]> By: marley http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57578 marley Mon, 05 Oct 2009 00:56:03 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57578 a thousand hugs, much love, all the sympathy you can bear, and warm fuzzies out the wazoo. oh and holy guacamole. i've never gone through something like that and even if i had, i doubt i could ever face the unfeeling mechnical humming and geometrical blankness of a computer screena nd actually put it down in words to share with anyone who googles your name. you go girl! that is incredible, and inexpressably brave. again, hugs a thousand hugs, much love, all the sympathy you can bear, and warm fuzzies out the wazoo.
oh and
holy guacamole. i’ve never gone through something like that and even if i had, i doubt i could ever face the unfeeling mechnical humming and geometrical blankness of a computer screena nd actually put it down in words to share with anyone who googles your name.
you go girl!
that is incredible, and inexpressably brave.
again, hugs

]]> By: Melanie http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57570 Melanie Sat, 03 Oct 2009 22:58:19 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57570 Well, I never would have expected that to happen, but sometimes the unexpected has a way of...being unexpected. I hope that for your own sake (and ours, too!) that you'll be able to pull through and be a trooper! So many bad things have happened to the people I know and love both last year and this year that I know that as I go on they will only get worse! I think that you're an awesome writer, and I particularly love your Jill Kismet series. Currently, I am unable to wait for the arrival of 'Flesh Circus' (at least that's what I think it's called) and I'm sure that it will be worth the wait. I wish you all the best in the world! Well, I never would have expected that to happen, but sometimes the unexpected has a way of…being unexpected. I hope that for your own sake (and ours, too!) that you’ll be able to pull through and be a trooper! So many bad things have happened to the people I know and love both last year and this year that I know that as I go on they will only get worse!
I think that you’re an awesome writer, and I particularly love your Jill Kismet series. Currently, I am unable to wait for the arrival of ‘Flesh Circus’ (at least that’s what I think it’s called) and I’m sure that it will be worth the wait.
I wish you all the best in the world!

]]> By: dave hutchinson http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57566 dave hutchinson Sat, 03 Oct 2009 14:18:04 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57566 *hugs* *hugs*

]]> By: Lil http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57547 Lil Fri, 02 Oct 2009 22:21:20 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57547 Good, positive, and supportive thoughts to you. You've brought so much joy to all of us, your readers. Thank you for that. Hope you're able to get through this rough patch soon. :-) Good, positive, and supportive thoughts to you. You’ve brought so much joy to all of us, your readers. Thank you for that. Hope you’re able to get through this rough patch soon. :-)

]]> By: Brandi http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-3/#comment-57546 Brandi Fri, 02 Oct 2009 20:09:58 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57546 I recently separated from my husband also and I have been raising my 2 yr old daughter by myself as well. I just wanted to let you know that I understand what you are going through. Alot of the time it feels like you're trapped in quicksand. But you will get through this. You are a strong woman! What I find that helps is a day of battery recharging. For me it is a pedicure. You just need to get out of the house, by yourself, and recharge your battery. I know you don't know me, but if you ever need someone to talk to who is a completely unbias person. I will be here for you. Good luck! I recently separated from my husband also and I have been raising my 2 yr old daughter by myself as well. I just wanted to let you know that I understand what you are going through. Alot of the time it feels like you’re trapped in quicksand. But you will get through this. You are a strong woman!

What I find that helps is a day of battery recharging. For me it is a pedicure. You just need to get out of the house, by yourself, and recharge your battery.

I know you don’t know me, but if you ever need someone to talk to who is a completely unbias person. I will be here for you.

Good luck!

]]> By: Chastity http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-2/#comment-57545 Chastity Fri, 02 Oct 2009 18:12:15 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57545 I know you've heard it before...but it WILL get better. Time and Patience are key to this particular type of emotional recovery...sending positive energy your way... BTW, I am a relatively NEW fan of yours...I read the short story Brother's Keeper and I got curious about your other stuff, so I checked out your website and fell in LOVE! I read the free Selene serial on the site and I now own the Dante Valentine series and I am currently working my way through the Jill Kismet series! You got talent lady! I am utterly and completely hooked! (Sorry, had to have my geek moment) Stay strong! I know you’ve heard it before…but it WILL get better. Time and Patience are key to this particular type of emotional recovery…sending positive energy your way…

BTW, I am a relatively NEW fan of yours…I read the short story Brother’s Keeper and I got curious about your other stuff, so I checked out your website and fell in LOVE! I read the free Selene serial on the site and I now own the Dante Valentine series and I am currently working my way through the Jill Kismet series! You got talent lady! I am utterly and completely hooked! (Sorry, had to have my geek moment)

Stay strong!

]]> By: darqchild http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/2009/10/wheres-my-lifeguard/comment-page-2/#comment-57543 darqchild Fri, 02 Oct 2009 16:32:19 +0000 http://www.lilithsaintcrow.com/journal/?p=2038#comment-57543 take a deep breath...you will see that it is all that you will need to get through each day....your inner "lifeguard" will amaze and astound you, trust me on this...everything is going to get better ((((((((((hugs)))))))))) take a deep breath…you will see that it is all that you will need to get through each day….your inner “lifeguard” will amaze and astound you, trust me on this…everything is going to get better
((((((((((hugs))))))))))

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